It’s official: squirting has become “a thing”. Once considered fringe, many people are now eager to have the novel, intense, next-level orgasmic release that squirting offers. Here’s what you need to know to learn how to squirt or to make your partner squirt.

What Is Squirting, Anyways?

Squirting refers to the expulsion of fluid out of a woman’s urethra during orgasm. That’s the only concrete thing we currently know about it (besides the fact that it feels awesome). Sadly, there aren’t a ton of research dollars dedicated to the science of squirting. Scientists out there, get on this!

If you want to learn how to squirt, you’ll need to enlist the help of your G-spot . The G-spot is hotly debated in its own right, but researchers agree that stroking the anterior wall of the vagina (the front side) will create a unique sensation that can lead to an orgasm. Most people are fixated on the squirting itself, but what makes the experience pleasurable is the fact that it’s accompanied with an intense G-spot-induced orgasm.

The biggest squirting mystery is the identity of the thin, milky fluid that gets released. No one really knows exactly what it is. A recent study claims it’s urine, but the study only had seven participants and about as many problems with its methodology. Other researchers say the fluid is generated from the Skene’s glands , which is the female equivalent of the prostate . The bottom line is: we don’t really know what it’s made of, but does it really matter? As long as the woman is enjoying herself, who the hell cares what’s coming out of her body?

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There’s also debate over whether or not all women are capable of squirting. Is squirting like riding a bike, where any able-bodied person can learn with practice? Or is it like being able to touch your tongue with your nose, where some people will just never be able to do it, no matter how hard they try? This is a tough question to answer. Some researchers estimate that only a tiny number of women can squirt, while many sex educators say any woman can learn. Fortunately, the process of attempting to squirt is far more fun than learning to ride a bike, so you’ll enjoy yourself regardless of whether or not you turn into a human geyser.

Prepare Yourself for Squirting Success

The best thing you can do to support your squirting endeavors is exercise your PC muscles , commonly known as your “kegels.” . These muscles wrap around the pelvis, and have been associated with increased chances of reaching orgasm, stronger orgasms, and squirting. You can find your PC muscles the next time you’re urinating. Cut off your flow before your bladder is empty. You’ll probably feel a “pulling up” sensation. Once you’re off the pot, try pulling these muscles up and gently releasing them . Repeat that 30 times daily.

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Also: any time you’re going to try to squirt, pee immediately beforehand. The type of stimulation you need to squirt often creates a sensation of having to urinate. If you’re confident that your bladder is empty, you’ll be able to relax and enjoy the sensation more. If you’re practicing solo, you can always hang out in the bathtub. If the need to urinate ever feels overwhelming, you can just go ahead and let it rip without having to worry about making a mess. If you’re on the bed, you can put down a towel or two to protect your sheets (you may need to invest in a mattress protector if you discover that you’re a prolific squirter!). But again, there’s no reason to be ashamed!